Thursday, November 5, 2009

Maging Masaya

Sa buhay parang mas madaling sumaya ng wlang katuturan lang,tawa ka pag corny ang joke......basta maging masaya ka lang....Parang tanga lang.......kc nman di mababayaran ang
tawa o katuwaan mo kung sau mismo nang gagaling ang kasiyahan...........

Iwan ko ba basta masarap ang pakiramdam kung masaya ka sa buhay moh ......heheheheeh
kht dami mo pang problema, maging masaya ka sa araw araw kht ano pa yan......ngumiti ka na lang

Thursday, July 23, 2009

to my son "TRISTAN VILLANGCA"



Comes a Little Note with a Lot of Love

Sometimes we need
reminders in our lives
of how much people care.
If you ever get that feeling,
I want you
to remember this...
I love you Son.
Beyond words that can even begin
to tell you how much,
I hold you and your happiness
within my heart each and
everyday.
I am so proud of you and so thankful
to the years that have given me
so much to be thankful for.
If I were given a chance to be
anything I wanted to become,
there's nothing I would rather be
... than your mother.
And there is no one
I would rather have
...as my son

Friday, July 17, 2009

Happiness

Tips for Happiness in Daily Life

Daily life can be made happier. It is a matter of choice. It is our attitude that makes us feel happy or unhappy. It is true, we meet all kinds of situations during the day, and some of them may not be conductive to happiness. We can choose to keep thinking about the unhappy events, and we can choose to refuse to think about them, and instead, relish the happy moments. All of us constantly go through various situations and circumstances, but we do not have to let them influence our reactions and feelings.

If we let outer events influence our moods, we become their slaves. We lose our freedom. We let our happiness be determined by outer forces. On the other hand, we can free ourselves from outer influences. We can choose to be happy, and we can do a lot to add happiness to our lives.

What is happiness? It is a feeling of inner peace and satisfaction. It is usually experienced when there are no worries, fears or obsessing thoughts, and this usually happens, when we do something we love to do or when we get, win, gain or achieve something that we value. It seems to be the outcome of positive events, but it actually comes from the inside, triggered by outer events.

For most people happiness seems fleeting, because they let changing outer circumstances affect it. One of the best ways to keep it, is by gaining inner peace through daily meditation. As the mind becomes more peaceful, it becomes easier to choose the happiness habit.

Here are a few tips for increasing happiness in daily life:

1) Endeavor to change the way you look at things. Always look at the bright side. The mind may drag you to think about negativity and difficulties. Don't let it. Look at the good and positive side of every situation.

2) Think of solutions, not problems.

3) Listen to relaxing, uplifting music.

4) Watch funny comedies that make you laugh.

5) Each day, devote some time to reading a few pages of an inspiring book or article.

6) Watch your thoughts. Whenever you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts, start thinking of pleasant things.

7) Always look at what you have done and not at what you haven't.

Sometimes you may begin the day with the desire to accomplish several objectives. At the end of the day you might feel frustrated and unhappy, because you haven't been able to do all of those things.

Look at what you have done, not at what you have not been able to do. You may have accomplished a lot during the day, and yet you let yourself become frustrated, because of some small things that you did not accomplish. You have spent all day successfully carrying out many plans, and instead of feeling happy and satisfied, you look at what was not accomplished and feel unhappy. It is unfair toward yourself.

8) Each day do something good for yourself. It can be something small, such buying a book, eating something you love, watching you favorite program on TV, going to a movie, or just having a stroll on the beach.

9) Each day do at least one act to make others happy. This can be a kind word, helping your colleagues, stopping your car at the crossroad to let people cross, giving your seat in a bus to someone else, or giving a small present to someone you love. The possibilities are infinite. When you make someone happy, you become happy, and then people try to make you happy.

10) Always expect happiness.

11) Do not envy people who are happy. On the contrary, be happy for their happiness.

12) Associate with happy people, and try to learn from them to be happy. Remember, happiness is contagious.

13) Do your best to stay detached, when things do not proceed as intended and desired. Detachment will help you stay calm and control your moods and reactions. Detachment is not indifference. It is the acceptance of the good and the bad and staying balanced. Detachment has much to do with inner peace, and inner peace is conductive to happiness.

14) Smile more often.


Wednesday, July 15, 2009

LOVING SOMEONE.....

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.

Once you accept someone for who and what they really are, they will surprise you by being better than you ever expected. LOVE is loving/accepting a person with all his/her strength and weaknesses.

Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.

When two friends fall in love they learn they are meant for each other. When they fall out of love they realize they want to keep each other forever.

Find time to realize that there is one person who mean so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you.

Love is seeing yourself through someone's eyes and finding yourself in somebody's heart.

Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever.

A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like your circle of friends. But the treasure inside, for you to see, is the treasure of friendship you've given to me.

Letting go has never been easy and holding on can be as difficult. Yet strengths measured not by holding on but by letting go.

True LOVE doesn't have a happy ending, that's because true love doesn't have an ending.

Men vs. women: Men would rather sacrifice love to conquer the world. Women would rather give up the world just to be with someone worth the sacrifice.

Decision should not be the choice of your heart or mind but sensible balancing of both.

Some thoughts are better left unsaid, some feelings are better left kept to yourself, but love has it's way of expressing itself despite the silence.

The happier the memory, the deeper it hurts.

There are so many stars in the sky only some are radiant enough to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which was willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remained elsewhere.

It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else... but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge of Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods.
- Albert Einstein (1879-1955)

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

A Friendship

"A true friend is someone who thinks that you are

a good egg even though he knows that you are

slightly cracked"












What Is A Friend?


A friend is somebody
Who knows you and likes you
Exactly the way that you are.

Someone who's special
And so close in thought
That no distance can ever seem far.

A friend understands you
Without any words,
Stands by you
When nothing goes right.

And willingly talks
Over problems with you
Till they somehow
Just vanish from sight.

And whether you're neighbors
Or live miles apart,
A word from a friend gives a lift
To your heart and spirit.

That shows you once more
Why friendship is life's dearest gift!





Sa dami ng mga pinagdaan na samahan iba kayong dalawa kc kayo ang tunay na ngbigay ng kalagahan ng isang pagmamahal sa kaibigan.......
Marami cguro na di nakakaalam na sobra ang laki ng PUSO nila dalawa sa bawat taong dumudulog sa kanila,minsan pa nga kaht wla na cla cge parin cla ng bigay...

Mapalad kami dahil kayo ang naging tunay naming kaibigan....saludo kami sainyo.........

Friday, November 14, 2008

What makes you H A P P Y?


Ako i'll make happy kung nakikita ko na masaya ang pamilya ko, wlang cla sakit, o anumang problema sa buhay,simple lang ang buhay bumibigat lang ito kung hindi natin ito aayusin, maging masaya po tau sa lahat ng bagay na dumarating sa atin malaki man ito o maliit> Huwag na po tau tumingi sa malayo o hanapi natin ito, bagkus andyan lang cia sa tabi mo di mo lang nakikita,. Simple buhay na syang magpapagaan sau sa araw araw, samahan mo lang ng kaunti ngiti at saya sa araw araw na gawain mo masaya kan, lag mong Tatandaan na ang lahatng ito ay bigay ng nasa itaas at cia lang ang nakakaalam sa lahat ng mangyayari sa atin buhay. Well smile na lang tau lagi kht bungi ka pa o kaht di nakaya ipinta sa painting ang itsura natin laban parin sa buhay at ngiti parin, Kita mo sasaya ka talaga.

Mahalin natin ang ating mga sarili tulad ng pagmamahal natin sa aating mga magulang at mga kapatid dito lang lang sa gagawin mo ito kita mo na agad na masaya ka talajga..hehehehheeh

Friday, August 22, 2008

Cno nga ba cia?


CNO NGA BA XIA??


Cno nga ba xia? Tanong ng batang may pagmamahal? Xia ay tahimik, matalino, masipag,
At matiyaga, malaki ang paghanga nia, at respeto sa bawat kakayanan ng tao,malaki ang
PUSO nia sa mga batang may mga special needs. May respeto cia sa tao kht ano pa ang
Istado mo d2 sa mundo,Matulungin cia , minsan nga sa sobrang magiging matulungin nia
Na mimis enterpret na cia,maraming nagmamahal sa kanya dhil na rin sa mga bagay na
Nagawa nia sa mga i2 ,maliit man ito, o malaki?

Mapagmahal cia sa pamilya nia,galante cia ……kht yata imposible ibibigay nia sau.
Ganun cia bilang kapamilya, marami cia katangian na talagang mapapahanga ka sa
Taong i2, nakita ko sa kaniya na maging matatag sa lahat ng bagay na pagdaraan mo
Sa buhay,magtiis at mag sakripisyo upang bigyan ng magandang buhay ang pamilya
nia .

kulang ang mga salita upang ipaalam at ipadama nmin sau kung gaano ka kahalaga
sa amin, hindi sa mga bagay na ibinibigay mo ….. kundi bilang I K A W mismo. Your
the most important in our lifes……

Hindi ako magsasawa na ipaalam sau at ipadama sau kung gaano ka nmin kamahal ng
Anak mo… Nais kong ipaalam sau na Mabuti kang tao,bilang isang ama at isang mabuting
Kasama sa buhay…..Masuwerte kami dhil ikaw ang naging katuwang nmin upang mapabuti
Ang buhay ….Mahal na mahal ka nmin .